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Staying Positive.

          Have the courage to know who you are! When you know your self you know what's for you and what's not, you respect your self. Stop ignoring your boundaries, write down the most important boundaries for you, be as clear as you can be, ask your self what are some things that are non-negatable to you?, where do you draw the line at? This, is where you start before you apply the actions of doing, this is because you have to be sure of the type of relationship you have with yourself to be able to defend who you are and be able to cut of everything if it doesn't resonate with you, be firm with your self so you can be firm with your actions.  Now, stop chasing approval or validation of others, this causes weakness in your confidence because it drains the ability to decide for yourself and you lose trust in yourself.  You have to make firm decisions for yourself, if you don't know how here are some tips: -  Validate yourself morning and nigh...